Monday, June 30, 2008

Getting girls with no game!

RSD is jumping on the "natural game" bandwagon; no, seriously, when was the last time you notice RSD coming up with something new?! What they taught before was a bastardized form of Mystery's M3, and no, I'm not fan of Style either, who also taught another bastardized form of M3. And I think Mystery is a freak, at least no one else claims to have invented the M3 model. So what is really natural game?

The truth is that it doesn't take any game. Keep talking to girls, especially drunk girls, you too will be able to take them home. It's not difficult, as long as you are willing to take risks (e.g. rape charge, STD,...), and you have lowered your standard enough (e.g. fat, ugly, and/or dirty girls), there are plenty of girls out to get laid pretty much every where. That's the dirty secret these guys, RSD, Style, Mystery included, don't tell you. Drunk girls don't require any game. As long as you look relatively decent, not creepy, not too grabby, and most important of all, keep running your mouth, girls will take you home or you can take them home.

Girls + alcohol = easy sex. There's no game in that equation. Now if you want great sex, and emotionally fulfilling relationships, that's a different story. Even then, they also don't require game as in how it's taught by dating coaches or promulgated by keyboard jockeys on seduction forums. The reality is that guys should chill out, don't get all caught up in gaming.

In fact, get rid of these silly terms of eliciting attraction and running comfort game. You know what normal people call these behaviors? The first is called flirting, you know, guys and girls joke around. If girls don't run away, then they ARE interested. No one can sink every basket, hit a home-run off every pitch,... in the same way, not every girl will respond positively. Accept that and move on. And yes, with time and practice, you will improve, not because you have game, but because you have a better social intuition. Which has to be experienced rather than constantly searched and dissected for, because while you are doing that, girls have already been creeped out by you.

As for game is played in comfort, it's about being yourself, showing girls who you really are, inside. If you keep running routines and/or telling stories by other people, and unless you are a psychopath or a great actor, people will notice. However, the trick isn't to lie, but to spin those stories, filter them and deliver them in ways that are more palatable to girls. Do NOT try to embed DHV's, that's what normal people call bragging.

So study up the general concepts, internalize them, and stop thinking about them, because the act of thinking about them will turn every interaction into an awkward, robotic affair. One more thing, for guys who want to get laid by paying for bootcamps... save that money, go buy yourself some nice clothes, and spend the rest on hookers. At least you know what you will get, for sure. And if you feeling like hunting, go look for drunk chicks.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

drunk chicks rock. spring break! wohooo!

On a serious note, I agree ... its so much easier to pick up girls when the concepts are internalized. Being an AFC is so relaxing, no longer thinking of the next routine ... just being normal and immersed in the moment and enjoying the conversation, her company and the touch of her inner thigh :) is awesome.

Anonymous said...

Good post. You're pointing out the elusive obvious, as David D. might say. The pickup community makes things complicated - I guess that's our nature as men (check out what we did with the military, with all the acronyms).

HOWEVER, I gotta play devil's advocate cause I'm a contrarian dude. How about the AFC who just can't internalize the fact that girls are receptive to guys approaching them in bars and stuff? You don't think he would benefit from a boot camp? I'm not sure if he would (I've never taken one myself), but my suspicion is that some bootcamp experiences may give guys that break-through experience that enhance their lives.

I dunno Beman, what do you think? You took a bootcamp, didn't you? You probably think now that you could've done it by yourself if you tried, but at the time, you don't think it was just what the Dr. ordered?

On a final point, because of societal norms or personal values, many guys won't pay for sex. I bet you don't really think that guys would be better off buying a hooker.

DDD said...

To cut thru the marketing hype & b.s., paying for a guy to teach you how to get laid is nearly the same as paying a girl to spread her legs for you.

Having sex is like walking and running, it's part of our natural instinct, not like learning to play a musical instrument. We also have to accept the fact that there are people who will be great at marathon, and just because we aren't that good at running, that doesn't mean we have to pay someone to teach us how to walk.