This video destroyed the fond memory of my childhood.

While I was in hibernation...

I often joke how I've learned more about history by watching TV than what I studied in books. One of the great figures in our American history that few recognized is John Adams. Definitely go check out the HBO's 7-part series: John Adams. This series dramatizes the hardship, growth, prosperity, finally, achievement of becoming the POTUSA, and of course, the inevitable decline of the man.

One dark page in our 20th century World History that most forgot is the rape of Nanking. Check out the acclaimed movie that was released last year. I'm not sure the atrocities committed by one side within a single war is a reflection on the psyche and cultural values of one particular group of people. It does make me wonder...

Ken Lee!

Contrast this:

With this:

It's the fat that makes you look fat

And your attitude doesn't soften your look either, girls can be just as clueless! Back to getting girls...

First we patent how to get girls, then sex, and mark my words, walking and breathing will be next!

P.S. Sorry I've stolen your precious Dora the explorer... I'll make it up to you by decoding "the famed blue balls."

P.P.S. The best review I've read of TD's The Blueprint Decoded by Ubermensch:

"k guys, i just watched the first dvd of blueprint then went out for a coffee and THREE girls passed out in a moist pile of ladyjuice when I coughed. A fourth was taken to hospital because her vagina would not shut. thanks tyler!"

Why aren't you dancing?

Oh, the community!

What am going to do? Should I take another workshop so I can get that high again? If only I can find more wings! BWAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAH!

Sometimes...

Run Forrest, RUN!!!

This dude can plow... watch it again!

Guess who?!

Credit to Possibility for discovering this... Who could he be?

And for those who still are sucking it up out there... after all these years:

It's not just any blog, it's...

What happened to HBO? I didn't particularly care for Sex and the City; at least it had witty dialogs. There were the Sopranos, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Real Time with Bill Maher when he was still funny. Recently, Rome was promising until it tanked second season. If ER can carry on for longer than my training in school, I don't see how Rome couldn't. Big Love was interesting first season, I doubt that it can carry on much longer. And the latest debacle, Tell me you love me, is just bad drama. It has a beautiful cast acting out mundane life with realistic sex scenes; how many of us want to see our new High Def flat-screen as a mirror to reflect our boring lives back?! We want to watch senseless acts of violence, over-the-hill cosmo-drinking waddle-shaking "girls" getting it on, or perhaps, a crazy Jew who behaves inappropriately all the time.

With TMYLM, it reminds people of what they don't want, boring lives, unfulfilling marriages, daily drudgery, and to add on top of that, counseling sessions to discuss the aforementioned topics. We want our flat-screen to be the secret mirror of fantasies we can escape to after a long day at work or another silly fight with our sperm receptacles. Californication on Showtime shows potential, at least the dialog is funny.

For my digital "BTivo," I'm keeping CYE, RT (hopefully, Bill Maher will be funnier), and Californication. Of course, the Daily Show and the Colbert Report just to keep up with news.

Mo' Mo' Mo Drama, Mo Drama

Good fucking god, how can juggling life be difficult?! Seriously, we just get together to fuck, why the song and dance?! As a friend suggested, I'm ready to outsource from daygame, nightgame, to day2, of course, I'll do the !close, thank you. If I were younger, life was not as busy, like managing multiple people, projects, businesses, I would love to dive both heads into more drama.

The only quiet time is when I'm being authentic, even then, I still get interrupted. Benzodiazepine will be my new best friend, sorry beta-blocker, you are not strong enough to take the edge off anymore. Opioid, you are next on the list, line yourself up, because I'm coming to get you.

Coming before comfort

What I'm going to write about isn't something that can be used during the initial meet up or early on until you have attraction. Briefly, I generate attraction through breaking rapport, cocky funny, push-pulls, personal stories that describe who I am (you know the b.s. about attractive qualities), and disqualifications. These I still use, only intermittently just to spice things up. But much of my interaction after I entered comfort stage is about building commonalities.

Opposites may attract, similarities are ones who stay together. Most people want to find a friend, someone to go through life together, side by side, partner in crime, into the cold dark night, not be alone, and more importantly, the feeling of not be lonely, in a sense, co-dependency, pair-bonding. To generate that sense of commonality, familiarity, camaraderie, together we face the world that sort of things.

This is why cold reads are so important! The receiver immediately gets a sense that we understand her somehow, and we can start finding out what we have in common. Now, in attraction phase, we have to break that so that we don't seem supplicating like every other guy out there. For example, all girls go out (at night) to have fun, fun in girl-speak means, "trouble." So these stupid banter lines, "you look like trouble!" and "hey, troublemaker!" and variations thereof, work because they imply that we know what they are looking for. That is the first step toward building commonality.

Friends know what each other is thinking, or at least they think/hope they do. The next step to create even a stronger bond is to describe how we are similar, and how together, we can go out and face against everyone else. For example, why are Jews so cohesive? The simple fact is that they feel everyone else is against them. So create that feeling of "us vs. them" and this has to be done in subtle ways... sorry, you have to figure that out! Or you can buy our soon-to-be released In-her game DVD/CD set. So things like nicknames are great. (Yes, that's all you get for free).

Once the sense of we are alike, we are together, and everyone else is against us, then we can proceed with exploring our future together will be like. This is when we can get girls to open up, talk about her dreams and aspirations. Sometimes, to create a sense of emotional roller coaster, yeah, create drama in their heads, not ours, we can talk about their disappointments and other sad memories too. This is how I build that special connection, something that every little girl grows up yearning for, someone to listen to her, who understands/gets her, and what love stories are all about.

Now, do NOT use this indiscriminately, sometimes, girls go out just to get sex. Don't build this kind of comfort, because they don't want this kind of clingy attachment, and in fact, we should not build this prior to sex. As guys, we have to be pushy before sex, girls will be pushy after sex. Use this comfort along the line of pillow talk, the kind we have after sex. Hot girls get this ALL THE TIME from guys who try to get into their pants, so do it afterward. Whereas not so hot girls, they need this kind of emotional comfort before sex, because few if any pays this kind of attention toward them. And the ultimate us vs. them, and combine that with future projection:

L'shana haba'ah b'yerushalayim (Next year, in Jerusalem)!

Complacency vs. continuous improvement

A few of us who hang out together don't seem to have the same drive and motivation as we did at the beginning of the summer. Many of us have improved quite a bit and we have been doing quite well in field; I worry though, that I'm not pushing myself as much as I did entering into the summer. Then I look around me, I see many warning signs, of people who are not good and will never be good. I don't want to repeat their mistakes.

Those who improve because they have both drive and focus. I suspect most PU coaches who are good because they have both high energy and sex drive. Those who don't have such high sex drive wouldn't work as hard because they don't have the need, and without the high level of energy, they simply can't afford to work that hard. I wonder how much of that is learned behavior because of necessity.

In any case, this beast has quite an appetite, and he needs to be fed!

Being a pussy

Argh, perhaps other people have this problem. I have been going out A LOT lately and I feel like I have this power to befriend almost any group. I blogged about being a normal social and fun guy. I think I'm there. The frustration is that I am not escalating. If I were to take advantage of Seattle this summer, I have to go crazy with pulls and day2, etc. Inside, I feel I have the power, but I'm not exercising it. I need to exorcise this demon.

Not being a closer reminds me of times I'm sparring, my opponent is down or in submission hold, I either don't push it to the point he's tapping out or just complete my combination which will finish the job. In order words, I'm being a pussy. I know I can close the deal so that I can move on, but I'm not doing it. Someone please kick my sorry ass for not committing to the close. I suspect this is the same sticking point of me ejecting from sets before. I haven't been digging through the community literature on escalation, compliance tests,... This pussy demon will die tonight. I have to remind myself, catch and release, pump'em and dump'em, don't keep holding on girls I've closed. Time for fresh meat. Hear me roar, bitches!

Oh, one more thing. Goddammit, David D C&F bullshit and PU101 banter monkey do more harm than good. I'll have to work on connecting and closing girls. I have to keep the eye on the prize, as this is: In-Her game. I'm a winner only if I'm in her. Everything else doesn't matter!

PU workshop: The Journey

For those who has never taken a PU workshop. This is how we get in touch with our inner child. Discover our real selves, the most appealing qualities waiting to get out. We have to bare our souls, shed our inhibitions, destroy our limiting beliefs, be vulnerable, be accepting, and be ready to receive knowledge from our gurus. The true man-to-boy influence.

From this point on, we are ready begin our journey. The road to in-her is a long one; for every journey, it begins with the first step... and here it is.

Night game is where we find the most sets to practice. We will learn the day-to-day influential ass-grabbing subcommunication. Stop thinking, no mental masturbation, we go head first and jump right in. Take a bottle if we have to dive into bushes, whatever we need to deal with our approach anxiety.

When the workshop is done, our reality is shattered. Our frame will be so strong that we think we can dive through wall. We will transcend limitations of mortals, we won't need alcohol. We will leave our past behind...

And in a few years, after a few more workshops, we will sarge just like this kid. He is an inspiration for all of us. Talk about no approach anxiety. He is getting more action because of our patent pending style and image personal image makeover! If only he would post his field and/or lay reports, we could learn soooooo much!

What is love?!

Microsoft has made us less productive by releasing bug ridden programs and unstable operating systems. The best joke I read was on a friend's away message: The day that Microsoft releases a product that doesn't suck is when it makes a vaccuum cleaner! This was from a Microsoftie. Although Microsoft wasn't defanged, it has became synonymous with crappy products. What if the company makes great products, slowly but deliberately are taking over our lives, do we still need to fear it? Despite Google's do no evil motto, I think it's quite dangerous a company has gathered so much data about us and is controlling so many aspects of our lives.

The ultimate evil is the idea of love. It's marketted, branded, and often something we all should seek and strive. This came up in a discussion about this video:

Haddaway - What is Love

We were talking about that special something, that sparkles, that makes a relationship worthwhile. If it was a drug, it makes us miss it in its absence, reminisce about those precious moments. Do we need that obsessive thinking pattern in order to qualify the relationship as being in love? How long can we sustain that emotional fire?!

With internet nowadays, we all can indulge in our collective perversions, in the privacy of our LCD screen(s) and our eyeballs. There are plenty of underground communities that turns a simple indulgence into a full fledge fetish. I confess I check this sick humor site on a regular basis. There are also amazing stuff I've found like the following, I'm not sure who is parodying whom!

The music of Gen-X

My first serious gf introduced me to Alanis Morrissette; don’t laugh, the Jagged Little Pill! Watching this new video brings back memories…