Seducing men

I can’t believe I’m telling you this…

This will only take a minute.

Give a man a girl, he’ll be happy until she dumps him. Teach a man how to get any girl, he’ll be happy for the rest of his life.

The caveat is that all seduction schools promise to teach guys the latter. How many actually attempt to do that? And how many actually succeed in teaching that knowledge?

Ladies men have existed ever since there are ladies. This is nothing new. We all think that there’s a short cut, one workshop, one bootcamp, one method , one guru that will lead us to salvation. Well, there isn’t. Guys who promise an easy fix are selling snakeoils.

I would contend that most guys who teach this are better at seducing men than women. They make men feel that they are (1) worthy (2) ready to take this power back from women (3) capable of having “hot babes” and 3somes. Guess what? I have seen quite a few guys going into this… Most dabble and by joining a lair, they think they will be good. 90% of the journey doesn’t begin with the first step, in fact, 1% of the journey begins with joining the community. 99% of the journey involves learning by making mistakes, no one there will be holding our hands or console us when some girls give us shit.

After we started to look AND act normal, the next step is to play the number game. Most dating coach will teach us about spitting game and try to convince us that’s enough, as though you can hear drops of her wetness hitting her panties as you do your silly games. You won’t. Running games isn’t enough; most women aren’t right for us, nor are we right for most women. Say we have a 1 in a 1000 chance of finding the right girl, if you start talking to many women, the chance of finding her is the same, however, by probability alone, you might find that one after you’ve talked to 1000 girls. If you don’t play and start talking to women, you won’t find that 1.

Even the best naturals get rejected, they just learn to filter that out and only focus on the positives. Most dating coaches fail just as much as any guy, they just won’t remember or admit to that. By focusing on the positive results, that’s how they get motivated and can overcome their rejection. I suspect most of them, especially ones that are jumping into this recently, are in this to make money off us, not because of their prowess in getting girls, but in their ability to find weak men to pay for their sorry ass, because they certainly aren’t making enough in their real job.

The only way to be better is by committing to it, then grow some balls, have thick skin to face rejection, and stop hitting up on men to boost your egos or line your pockets (yes, this is for those try to be “dating coaches” when you got no game; there might be one bald PUA, and you are not him). One more thing, this game is played for years, very few if any bona fide PUA settles into a relationship with one girl after dabbling int this for a few months.

Remember, 99% of the journey lies ahead of joining the community and 90% of guys fail. Are you strong enough to be that 10%?