Compliance and a stronger frame

I don't get many "Aha!" moments nowadays. Probably due to old age or lack of cortical activities in my cerebrum. One side effect of being unreactive is that I often just don't give a shit and like water off a duck's back, I go on without wasting karmic energy on most things. Or as one friend advised, erase these negative people from my life and my thoughts. How is this related to pickup?

We probably heard that most interactions are the collisions of frames, whoever has the stronger frame wins. As shown with those who are good with women, they tend to be quite good at manipulating people, as in both men and women, in general. By good with women, I, of course, meant that getting them to comply, which could range from the beginning of the interaction, getting them to hook into the conversation, accepting and reciprocating kino, to further along in the interaction to venue change, and ultimately, accepting and enjoying the cock.

How is this generalized to manipulating other men? This started as my observation that those who tend to violate other people's boundaries, pushing the interaction further than most are willing, tend to get the results they desire. Then I saw the same observation repeating over and over again, from stories and experiences of many, that people complained (not just out of jealousy) that guys who are good with women are quite adept at manipulating and extracting favors from those around them. Most men are bred and raised to be followers, they feel that they must give up something to gain something else. They simply don't see value in their existence.

I personally find this revelation quite alarming. Do I want to continue down this road in order to be good with women? I've seen many who have failed, and they ended up as passive aggressive whiners, or in general, they become gossipy girlie boys who simply complain, or try to get others to comply when they simply don't have that strong frame to force onto others, or worst yet, lie and pray that others might give in. Can this set of dominant behaviors be controlled, i.e., turn on and off at will? The sad news is that I suspect that it has a more biological basis, that once the switch is flipped, there's no turning back.

P.S. For those who want specific techniques, this post on Sinn's blog on being a closer is MONEY!