Breakthrough her bitchshield and drop her panties with your

Strong identity. Part of being a man, having a strong frame, is to have a strong identity and the ability to convey that quickly. People, guys in particular, often complain about girls having a bitchshield and whatever freeze. Anyone who has done a cold approach on a super hot girl has experienced the FMR, first minute resistance, approach anxiety (and yes, for many, they never progress past this first sticking point). Girls experience something similar; they want "to get" the identity of the stranger on first glance so she can decide quickly whether she likes him or not,... This is why peacocking, great body language, and a few other tidbits are necessary to make that first impression .

First impression matters a great deal... There are two main ways of conveying it through identity. First, and if you can withstand social pressure, peacock to resemble any of the sexy stereotypes. I've discussed this previously in regards to how looks are important and having a sense of fashion. Being able to deal with stares and shit tests is a good sign that someone is comfortable with himself. The second way of conveying identity is through story telling... We all play multiple roles in our daily lives. The basic ones (for guys) are: friend, son, ex-bf, brother, father, uncle, and other professional roles. Incorporate these identities into stories. The goal of a good "pickup" interaction is to move from situational, to our mutual social roles/contexts, to our personal and finally, sexual topics.

For many girls, when a stranger starts talking to them, they wonder who he is. For many guys who haven't assumed a certain authoritative role in their lives, they don't know how to present themselves. So they follow the cocky&funny and come across as someone trying to hide something. The problem, once again, stems from guys not being themselves and girls can sense that. Being ourselves, in women's speak, means having an identity, immunity against social pressure, willingness to throw it out there without exhibiting any hint of approval seeking behavior.

Girls really don't have any bitchshield; they are just reserved, especially with guys who dress conservatively and don't convey a strong sense of identity in their presentation (body language, clothes, looks,...). But then there are also guys who seem cool, until they open their mouths and dispel all doubts. So both verbal and non-verbal "games" are critical. Just as non-verbal game goes beyond just body language, verbal game goes beyond just routines to "spike her buying temperature." Being genuine is about being comfortable with oneself, and having the ability of telling people who we are (directly or indirectly), our identities.