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A very good friend of mine just moved away to a new place, being among the gay crew and an enthusiastic participant in the circle jerk, he has started a new blog. He plans to chronicle his journey from how to prepare his move all the way to building a social circle of friends. He's not much of a gamer, and he's by no means a "PUA." But he's a funny guy with plenty of friends wherever he goes.

A good measure of a man is the kind of friends he has. Many people live a very sheltered life and cloistered at work by LCD's. They don't go out to meet people, make friends, and go experience the world. Those lonely friendless chumps are ones joining the community, thinking they will be buried by an avalanche of pussies by going out to game or pick up girls. The reality is so far from what gurus brag, uh, talk about in their "DHV" (oh, sorry, blog about) stories.

I'm sure there are exceptions, but they prove the reality. The reality is that most big-name (not the self-proclaimed ones in forums) gurus are pretty normal guys, and if you drop them in any group of people, they will easily befriend and win over people. In contrast, most guys in the community are not even comfortable in their own skins, much less around people, or girls in particular. They have this uneasiness about them which stems from within of not being at peace with themselves.

We can keep pushing back and they will end up in years of therapy. A better way is to go out, make friends with people, there will be drama, shit will hit the fan, and there will be moments when they will discover themselves for who they are. We can learn a lot about ourselves by the reflection that our friends are mirroring back.

To most normal people, this is so simple and intuitive, but for whatever reasons, people in the community are so warped that they don't even consider this. They want to be pro-dancers before they even know how to walk, so they would try to learn techniques, methods, and whatever else in order to game girls, and you can easily guess the result, they end up being alone, lonely, and chronic posters in seduction forums trying to impress other lonely boys.