Decoding the blueprint for transformation

Why are some men so good with women? Why do some call themselves pickup-artist (PUA) and join their local lair... but end up sarging phantom girls off Craig's List? What differentiate these two groups? How do you transform from someone who talks about getting girls to someone actually gets girls?

The first step for those who fell into the community is to get out of it. Stop hanging out with people who talk, discuss, strategize, waste time debating who is better, break down interactions, obsess with failures,... There are some instinctual things that we all learn without much coaching. Some examples perhaps? Walking, talking, socializing, and amazingly enough, fucking. Somewhere along the line, people stopped following their instincts and they turn what occurs naturally into a cerebral activity... and guess what happens, they get frozen, they get inside their head, they become obsessive & compulsive, and of course, they fail and they fail repeatedly. So when they keep running against that brick wall, they start searching for more materials, new gurus, novel techniques/methods, because they are not strong enough to withstand the pain of getting up and trying again.

Don't get me wrong, there are many things we can learn from each other. Take mathematics, languages, and may be even seduction. But please, save yourself the embarrassment, do it privately like masturbation. You are free to click on ads on this page if you want to learn more, but 99.999999999999% of the over 6 billion people on earth today, they are the progenies of people who didn't use any "seduction techniques."

The only way to succeed is to do it, not afraid of failure, and learn from one's mistake. Quit looking for hand holding, quit looking for an easy way out, quit thinking that somehow, you are magically better than the rest of humanity, you are somehow more alpha, the leader, when deep down, we are all pretty much the same... except for retards, i.e. community/lair guys, they simply are nature's mistakes, of guys who are not meant to breed, or they are denying their true destiny in life, to serve as warnings for the rest of humanity. So quit the community, stop learning, and start doing. And DO not click on any ads on this page. Just DO not DO IT!