It takes one to know one

Funny how so many seduction "gurus" have no real life friends outside of the community. Some of my good friends were also in the community, but most eventually left it. The interesting fact that I notice is that almost all guys in the community have no friends outside of the community... why is that? Why are these guys, supposedly so good at seducing girls, can't even maintain simple friendships?

The sad truth is that they never did, don't have now, and probably will never have normal friends because they are so busy analyzing social interactions, calculating cost/benefit, and mostly, being chodes. Sometimes, having friends involves going out of one's way for the good of the group, much of living a life is about building memories together, having a good time, and socializing without ulterior motives of getting girls, sex, money, and/or fame from each other.

I was just reading this thread about a local "dating coach" who has been banned from multiple lairs/forums. If this guy is so good with women, why does he have such a difficult time getting along with people? Is he so bad at hustling other people that even chumps, i.e. "AFCs" can recognize his chodish lameness?! Even worst is his avatar, he hired two models and have their kiss as the picture representing him. When in reality, he is ugly, not just his biological facial structure, body posture, but also his overall presentation, he has no presence, no charisma, none of gregarious charming nature that would endear him to women and that men admire. Instead, he has the shifty eyes, muffled voice, absence of social intellect, and everything negative that many ascribe to his ethnic stereotype.

Surprisingly, he has students who pay him to be in his forum/lair, and to hang out with him. Not so unexpectedly, they are just young kids who don't know any better. There's a time and place to stand by people, but when it's so blatantly obvious that he has no skills... not just in teaching but also no skills in getting girls, and he wants to be a dating coach, he has to be called out. The reason no one else has seen him for the chode that he is, because they are not hustlers, or hustler-wannabe like him... until this friend of mine who went to their "lair meeting." So this friend warned me of this "dating coach," and you know what, this dating coach didn't fail to disappoint! So it takes a hustler to recognize another hustler or even, a hustler-wannabe. If you can't tell if someone is a hustler, stay away from most dating coaches, or regular forum posters.

The money shot (that alphasperm should adopt) of this entry is this: dating coaches are not here to change our (dating) life, they make money on us being miserable and not good with women, i.e., the longer we stay being miserable and not good with women, the more we will spend on these hustler(-wannabe)s. The only way to be good with women is to be with women (and they are everywhere), not by spending time with other guys who are also not good with women or guys who want to make money off us.