What would you be doing...

If the hottest girl is with you right now? Other than fucking each other's brain out, what else would you be doing? I've talked many guys. We can mentally masturbate ad nauseum about innergame, outergame (techniques, methods,...), and whatever else they can do right there, but rarely do I meet someone who can tell me what he would do if he was with his dream girl right then and there.

That's why people can hook up all they want, #close all the hot girls at any venue, wink at all the cute fatties/cougars on match.com, and ultimately, they end up being alone AND lonely. The simple reason is that they don't live a life alone without being lonely. The second reason is that they don't know what they want to do next.

Despite how much I find Style and his Stylelife marketing bullshit annoying, I really like his idea of having calendar filled with activities and taking a look at it before heading out. When we meet the right girl and we clicked, not only can we talk about what we've done before, but also what both of us can do together in the near future.

Most people experience girls flaking on them can be traced back to several reasons. One, there's no attraction, the guy was creepy to her somehow. Two, she didn't know why he likes her, hence why qualification and/or SOI are important. Finally, she doesn't know what he wants, i.e. what he wants to do together.

The thing about girls is very simple. We must have a compelling reason to see each other again other than being physical. For guys, sex is what many of us are after. For girls, sex is something that happens while we are doing something else. So think of what that something else you would want to do with the girl of your dream, know when, where, and how you would want to do it.