Tuesday, January 22, 2008

The natural history of a community guy

Reading other blogs, they have warned me that this guy is hilarious, but this made my day! He left out some critical steps and some other outcomes.

I've been working on an entry about when guys should quit, why some shouldn't start at all, and who will succeed. What I discovered is that guys will eventually return to where they started... myself included. The truth is that not everyone will get a crazy party girl every time he goes out, but if one goes out enough and talk with girls, he will end up going home with one of them, if he doesn't get laid, at least he will get herpes, the gift that keeps on giving!

The sad reality is that most random hookups occur with unstable, crazy, drunk, fat, ugly, and combinations thereof girls. As long as guys are calm enough, socially intelligent enough not to say something stupid, they will get girls. In any case, ultimately, this is a numbers game.

As for getting girls and keeping them, or getting a sufficient supply of girls into a pipeline, then we will have to work more on ourselves than just mastering pickup techniques. Either we have to PU quite a bit to land a seemingly normal girl who is a psycho after being with her for awhile, or we have to have sufficient values for girls to keep coming back for more. This, of course, would depend on us being happy with ourselves, having our lives together, and little if any drama in our lives.

Ultimately, this community should be a transition period, guys who remain stuck in this have issues as are guys who quit without improving. The only admonition I have is that people stay away from community guys in the long term, go in, find people you click with, develop friendships, work out any deficiency you have in your social life, be back with normal people, trust me, normal people get more sex than almost all of the community guys I know. The only girls that community guys regularly fuck are: fat, ugly, and/or crazy. The ones who get hot girls consistently because they have other parts of their sorted out, and most of their hot girls, or girls with value, are through social circles... you know, friends, like normal social people (outside of the community).

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Totally true - I saw the full circle thing happen with myself and with many others. Great post.