Quit learning and start doing!

I'm not renting out any room, and you don't have to come around to knock on the "back door." Better yet, you don't have "to take care of that before you come." In fact, you don't have to come at all, and your money goes to the best cause of all, YOU! That's right, you don't have to enclose your money in a blank envelope to give to me. Keep it to yourself and enjoy what you've earned. I tell you what, you deserve every penny of it because you are smart enough, strong enough, good enough to resist this legion of scammers, hustlers, and parasites on society.

Funny how people forward me these stupid pickup school ads and they all talk about what they will talk about instead of telling people outright what are the do's and don'ts of being social with people. Keep them coming, instead of giving you a long list of benefits, what I will talk about, I will cut the bullshit. You don't have to call a special 800 # to join in a conference call with a bunch of other chodes, who also don't go out or who go out but can't approach or who approach but don't close. We are men, this is not the Oprah show, we shouldn't get together to perseverate and mentally masturbate over a few interactions with people.

Keep reading community materials, try them out, if you fail, try different techniques, keep repeating until you find what works for you. I give you the permission to fail. We all fail, I fail ALL THE TIME! And that's ok, in the end, we all fail to survive, but while we are alive, do not fail to live, and we should enjoy what time we have.

Oh right, how to deal with shit tests?! Here's the thing, when we talk to strangers, why should we give them the power to affect ourselves?! If a guy tries to AMOG you, do all sorts of shit to blow you out, just tell him, "Hey man, you are alright, we like you already, you don't have to try so hard. We know you are a nice guy already." Move on and run your materials. The words really don't matter that much, it's in the delivery and the timing. Talk slowly, pause at each critical turn in your statement. If a girl gives you shit, agree and twist it around. Example, after a brief conversation and you push for a day2, "I already have plans for tomorrow night," she says while touching you or giving you the pity-pat. Here's how I respond, "That's ok. You are not THAT urgent, I already have you on my to-do list and you can tell me when you are free to be done to." Hold it, hold your slight smirk until she cracks up. Keep running materials and continue.

The most important thing is that you have fun talking to people, if you don't have fun, she won't have fun because it's her job to follow your lead. Most guys fail in this because they are not fun, they don't know how to have fun, and/or they don't know what fun means. Surround yourself with happy people, you know, friends. Seriously, money can't buy you happiness, some workshops / bootcamps might give you some skills, the responsibility is on you and you alone to get better, and you can get better by doing and in the beginning, failing a lot, not by "learning." There are people who don't get good after all these years of learning, they are called "slow learners." Then perhaps, this is not for them. And no amount of workshops, seminars, bootcamps, and materials can help them. They've already been weeded out of the biological gene pool. For those who are making incremental progress, keep pushing, keep trying, keep doing.